Insecurities

In childhood, someone may feel insecure because they do not receive love and praise as much as they should. Sometimes the pictures that parents often argue and eventually divorce may be embedded in child memory. They may blame themselves for the cause, even though it's not true. Even worse, their parents may scold or hurt their body because they are trouble makers.

What will happen to a child in this condition? Some turned to use drugs or drink alcohol in their teens. Some people go to mingle with other gangs because they want to have friends or people that they can rely on. Therefore, a teenager that lacks warmth in the family may leap for someone to fill the love which they are craving. But this relationship does not last long and more often, the isolation of one another makes it even more insecure than before.

Some teenagers that do not fall into this condition may grow into a person who does not gradually value themselves enough. For instance, some people may consider themselves as a zero person (A worthless person, someone who's done nothing worthwhile in life) because their parents always complain and scold them on what they did. Worse still, some might never experience love and complimented from their family.

The way they are raised is not the only reason for their insecurity. But this feeling may be caused by bruising because of the parent divorce or problems that come with age. Regardless of the cause, these things may make them feel unhappy and may destroy their relationships among others.